is not necessarily specifically a BDSM activity; however can
be used as such for a variety of reasons. It is a more extreme
sexual act, it is considered illegal in many states; being somewhat
taboo by many it offers great excitement; many find it extremely
pleasurable due to the amount of nerve endings that stimulated
in the course of the act; and it can be considered a more humiliating
sexual act in comparison to vaginal entry sex. Being that this
orifice wasn’t not intended for copulation, special care needs
to be taken so it is a stimulating sexual experience for both
parties and for health safety as well.
is an activity you wish to participate in, just for your personal
knowledge, check the legal issues in your state, so you are
aware of them. I am not sure if they have a team of sodomy police
casing private homes, but I doubt it very much. If you are in
a group play setting be aware of any possible stings set up
so you aren’t “caught with your pants down”.
sectors consider this sexual activity very taboo and many people
have been raised with this society set “moral”. Human nature
and its excitement value in regards to sex is often, “Tell me
not to do it and I will want to more!”
The sphincter was intend for output purposes, to enter something
into the channel the wrong direction will create a bit of pain
and anyone who participates in S & M know that pain can
also produce to pleasure.
it sexually stimulating for humiliation to be used on them thus
the sexual use of an orifice designed by nature for excrement
is often used for this humbling effect.
who are new to receiving anal sex an important tip is: “relax”!
For those that are new to entering the anus during sex and important
tip is: “foreplay”! The sphincter is a muscle, to ease the pain
and to enhance the enjoyment of this act, the muscle must be
relaxed and this is done with foreplay.
will include the use of lubrication, fingers and/or toys. Many
promote KY jelly, others suggest a variety of anal lubes. Be
sure your nails are trimmed, you do not wish to cause any tears.
You may wish to cover your toys with condoms for easy cleaning.
Use of condoms is promoted since “safe” is part of “safe sex”.
Some people like to wear rubber gloves as well, do what is most
comfortable for you. Do not use anything with sharp edges.
anal touching during the course of foreplay, sexual arousal
is relaxing and also tends to lessen some pain factors. When
your lover is relaxed and aroused, gently tease the bud with
a lubed finger, slowly, and gently pushing deeper. A rotation
of the lubed finger works especially well, slowly easing the
muscle open and continue, slowly, gently, deeper.
If you are
planning to use toys be sure to start out with something small,
smooth and be use it also is well lubed and again, slowly, gently,
deeper. Keep your lover relaxed. You will know when your lover
is relaxed and is more receptive to the object in their ass.
may take up to ten minutes before its ready for something bigger
like parts of your anatomy or a larger toy. Be prepared when
this stage is ready, have lube and condoms beside you for easy
access. This isn’t time for a potty break, unless you plan to
start all over again.
anus slowly and gently, slowly pushing deeper. Back out a bit
if you meet resistance, yet try to stay “in” and talk to your
lover, keeper your lover’s arousal intact. If this is your sub
remind her how she will be pleasing you and assuring her she
too will be pleasured once she relaxes and is able to take in
together, try other toys as you go. Be sure this is a consensual
sexual activity, relax, go slow, be gentle and enjoy!
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