September/October 2001
Trubled Times

Picture Herefor those times when you're having troubles

by Celeste aka BitaTruble


Dear Bita,

I am not married, but have been in an r/t relationship for 6 years and have a child with Master. Very recently (over the last 4 or 5 months) he has seemed to lose interest in both me and our child. I strongly suspect that those 'late hours' at the office are really late hours at the local pub. He's always been a drinker, but it's getting bad now. He's even gotten a little violent at times. I can't leave him because I don't have any where to go and besides I wouldn't do that to our child. Don't you agree that a child deserves two parents? Any advice would be appreciated.

Unhappy submissive housewife

Dear Unhappy,

Is this a joke? Why are you putting up with it? Because he's a ''Master"? I don't agree that a child 'deserves' two parents. Ideally, two well-adjusted parents that love each other and their child would be Shangri-La, however, do please join the rest of us in the real world. Your "Master" needs help and, honey, you can't help him. You can "enable" him to continue on a path of destruction and by ignoring the problem or thinking that you 'have no place to go' that's exactly what you are doing. Dominants are far from perfect and the belief they are is a fallacy and a precursor to a doomed relationship. Trust me on this one, it hurts to fall off a pedestal. If your Dom is at the pub drinking, perhaps a few pieces of literature strewn around the house will grab his attention. Based on my experience though, until he reaches rock
bottom, there's not a whole lot that you can do. "He" has to be the one to take the first step. However, the violence is a different story. By staying in the situation and forcing your child to stay in the situation you are committing the crime of child endangerment. You are knowingly putting your child into a position where s/he can be injured or worse. Why are you doing
that? Ask yourself who is more important ... the Dom at the bar or the child sleeping innocently in bed. If your answer is the Dom at the bar, then you are asking the wrong person for advice. There are shelters in literally every city in America. Call your local CPS (child protective service) and tell them that you are in fear for your child's welfare. You don't have to
go into your entire lifestyle. You can get help. You just have to be a good parent and do the right thing for you and your child. Your 'Master' will have to fend for himself.



Hi bita,

I'm an experienced Dominant Master but I'm having a problem finding the perfect submissive. I want someone that is worthy of me and that will do my bidding without being a nag or complaining. I am 6'1" 210 lb. and considered good looking. I keep in shape and want a submissive that will make me proud. I'm tired of BBW's. Where do I go?

Highly Desirable Dom

Hi yerself DD,

Since I'm not available, I suggest going to the local porn shop and buying yourself a blow up doll.

Good luck. I have a feeling you will need it.




I think u r cute. Will you b my Dom?


Dear submale,

I think u r cute 2, but no.