by
The
Society for Human Sexuality at the University of Washington
State
INTRODUCTION
Fire play is the SM technique of consensually applying fire
to someone for brief periods of time for mutual erotic pleasure.
Care should be taken to observe all appropriate safety precautions
in order to avoid injury. In the context of this document, the
"bottom" is the person to whom fire is being applied,
and the "top" is the person applying the fire.
FIRE
PLAY IS SOME OF THE MOST ADVANCED PLAY TO BE FOUND IN THE BDSM
COMMUNITY. YOU *ABSOLUTELY SHOULD NOT* ATTEMPT THIS TYPE OF
PLAY WITHOUT LEARNING FROM SOMEONE WHO KNOWS WHAT THEY ARE DOING.
READING THIS DOCUMENT IS *NOT ENOUGH*. YOU AND ONLY YOU ARE
RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS.
FIRST AID AND SAFETY
It's
helpful to have a fire extinguisher on hand, to do the first
play over an area that isn't flammable, to avoid having the
bottom wear anything that alcohol could drip into that would
then serve as a wick or which would burn, and to avoid the bottom's
(head) hair from straying near fire (putting it up is a good
idea, as is avoiding the use of flammable hair sprays). It's
helpful to have a large cotton wet blanket on hand in case the
fire runs away, and the blanket may be used in cases where a
fire extinguisher is unavailable.
"Second
Skin" works well for burn first aid.
First
Degree Burns: Characterized by localized redness. Treatment
can include cold water, keeping the burn covered by cool/clean
cloths (such as gauze pads), and perhaps using aloe vera and/or
mineral oil.
Second
Degree Burns: Characterized by blistering. One shouldn't pop
blisters; just keep the area clean.
Third
Degree Burns: These commonly need medical attention, especially
if they are large. They are generally kept covered with clean
linens, and treated with Silvadine.
For
fire play with alcohol, one may use one's hand to brush out
the flame, or block a traveling flame from going higher. If
one is going to be doing this, it can be helpful to apply a
lotion such as LubriSoft to one's hands first.
It
should go without saying that the bottom should not be wearing
clothing on the area to which fire will be applied, or which
will be anywhere near fire.
It's
very helpful to have a few extra saucers on hand, so one has
a place to rest the torches.
In
general, it's helpful to do fire play in places with good ventilation.
If someone has body hair, that will be incinerated in the area
to which fire is applied, which can cause a stench unless there
is good air circulation.
FLASH
COTTON
This
may be used to produce a brief, brilliant flash of fire and
heat.
It's
helpful to have a punk stick to light the flash cotton with.
Don't
put the punk or flash cotton in an orifice or mucous membrane
- this causes more heat for longer.
The
thicker the amount of flash cotton used, the more heat is generated.
One may form the flash cotton into long strips, which one lights
at the tendril ends. If one twists the flash cotton, it burns
for longer.
Keep
a glass of ice water handy.
Don't
keep the flash cotton in enclosed spaces near sources of heat.
In
Seattle, flash cotton is available at the magic shop in Pike
Place Market.
FORMING
TORCHES
Obtain
a series of 14" length 3/8" diameter dowels. One sands/bevels
the ends so they don't leave splinters or poke through the end
of the torch. About 1 1/2" down from an end of the dowel,
use a knife to make a score/indentation all the way around the
dowel.
One
can then use a paper towel soaked in linseed oil to brush the
dowel with so that it doesn't burn. It can be retreated every
once in a while during its lifetime.
Take
a Curity (or other brand) 4"x4" gauze pad, and unfold
it. Refold it as necessary so the pad has a consistent thickness
and appropriate area. Put some non-scented pure (preferably
sterile) cotton balls in the middle of the gauze pad, and fold
the pad and balls over the scored end of the dowel. The end
of the gauze pad should reach past the score in the dowel. Take
some Nylex waxed thread (about a 6" length - this thread
is available at Tandy Leather, etc.) and tie the pad to the
dowel, having the thread be protected from sliding by being
in the scored channel. Make several turns, tie with a secure
knot or two, and trim the thread and gauze tails.
It's
helpful to have two torches, as one does fire play. One can
be unlit, and used to apply the lighting fluid. The other can
be lit, and used to light the fluid.
Dip
the torches in 70% rubbing alcohol before you light them.
You
may blow them out when you are done, and then possibly squeeze
out some of the extra rubbing alcohol before putting them away
(once they're cool enough to do so). It's then helpful to put
them in a plastic bag so they don't cause a stench.
FLAME
CREATION
It's
helpful to have a couple of containers (with a low center of
gravity, so they can't be tipped easily) to contain the fluid
used for lighting.
The
primary fluid used for fire play is 70% rubbing alcohol(isopropyl).
If
one wishes, one may use as a lighting fluid 70% rubbing alcohol
mixed with liquid soap. This will cause the flame to last longer,
and helps prevent the rubbing alcohol from running when it is
used on someone's back. One can put food coloring in this container
to distinguish it from the one with plain rubbing alcohol. For
cleaning up afterwards, regular rubbing alcohol will clean off
the soap/rubbing alcohol mixture.
Votive
candles may be used as a source of flame, possibly contained
in a saucer that can't be easily tipped.
DIFFERENT
TYPES OF PLAY
One
may pass the torch near someone (perhaps over their back, which
is the primary place over which fire is applied). Blowing on
the flame will produce more intense/more radiant heat on the
area the flame is being passed over. The area just below the
scapula works well for this sort of play.
One
can also tap the area in question with the torches.
The
most common type of fire play is to brush an area with the lighting
fluid of choice and to light it. The brushing may be accomplished
with an unlit torch or brush, and the lighting may be accomplished
with the lit torch. Common areas for this sort of play are the
back and the hands.
On
the back, one may brush patterns of fluid and light them. The
flame will travel the lighting fluid path. A very beautiful
pattern may be made by using an unlit torch to brush a "V"
pattern, starting near the base of the spine and going up to
the two shoulders. Lighting the pattern at the base of the spine
will cause the blue flame to travel up the back in an exquisite
manner.
Some
people (especially those who like psychological play) enjoy
making fireballs. This may be done with a spray bottle filled
with 70% isopropyl and a bic lighter. It's important to watch
for alcohol mists which may end up on the floor.
Of
course the traditional sort of heat play is to hold one's hand
a safe distance above a candle, or to drip hot wax on someone.
With hot wax play, it's important to use unscented paraffin
candles (not beeswax). The farther the distance one drops the
hot wax from, the cooler it will be when it hits the skin. One
can start high, and work down to within the tolerance level
of the bottom. Another option (which is especially viable if
one has a butane torch for heat application) is to tape a bunch
of paper-free crayons together (different colors), possibly
melt the base together and remove the tape, and then hold the
crayon bundle above the bottom, and cause drops to drip off
by applying the torch to them. One may "paint" off
individual drops of individual colors with this approach, or
twirl the whole bundle under the flame to cause a series of
drops to fall off quickly.
The
feeling of a brand may be simulated by having the bottom blindfolded,
and touching their skin with an ice cube.