Master Timelius Sean
of us have encountered those unique individuals that demonstrate
that class isnít a prerequisite to our lifestyle. These individuals
tend to disregard any and all boundaries, and seem self determined
to destroy everyone in their path. Though there is no real distinction
of these types of individuals and their roles they choose, Iím
going to focus on a particular aspect of character, the Master.
I must define my definition of Master. I define the difference
between a Dominant and Master as one who chooses to collar a
slave and the other enjoys the privy to maintaining submissive(s)
without a collar. This is based on concepts of my own teachings
and not necessarily the definitions chosen by others.
Act anyway I want One major misconception that I see many
times is that a Master can be belligerent towards anyone, anytime,
whenever he or she chooses. What they fail to realize, or choose
not to concede, is that they may Master in their own home, but
not of society. Being inconsiderate of others does not demonstrate
anything other then bad manners and inappropriate behavior.
No consequences to my actions Another myth is that there
are no consequences towards decisions or actions taken by a
Master. That is simply a coward escaping responsibility. Taking
responsibility is a fundamental aspect to a healthy lifestyle
regardless of your nature. Being accountable is another. Throwing
off responsibility to another, especially a slave or submissive
only demonstrates who has the power within a relationship. I
stated power, not necessarily control. Power includes the capability
for action or performance and deferring responsibility defers
the power to the accused.
I am in control Hmmm, do you abide by a safe-word? If you
do then you are not in control. Unless an individual is chained
to the wall and unable at any time to leave, you are not in
complete control. A slave or submissive may relinquish their
will or submit to your wishes, but both legally and spiritually,
you do not control.
My opinion is the only opinion That belief only limits ones
ability to grow. Your opinion is just that, your opinion. Unless
you are from the heavens with some Devine consciousness, your
opinion is simply just thatÖyours. Even I struggle with the
ego of recognizing that the world does not revolve around me
and that someone may have more knowledge and an understanding
that I do not.
I always am right OK. Then donít waste your time always
trying to get others to view the same way. It is impossible
to have everyone agree to anything. Donít think because you
are long-winded and able to debate non-stop that your opinion
is becoming the overall census. Actually your not even communicating
and have little to no listening skills. If you canít listen,
you canít communicate, you only dictate.
I must know everything Another misconception that many new-comers
face. There is a false pride that an individual being Dominant
or a Master must have all knowledge. If this was the case, there
would be absolutely no need for seminars or functions. These
classes and events are based solely on the subs. They are to
teach new techniques and ideas to the Dominants as well.
A Master must break its slave This one is misconstrued and
misunderstood. Simply being sadistic has absolutely nothing
to do with roles or titles. The intent behind breaking someone
is more important. Are you willing to accept any consequences
to the aftermath or are you simply enjoying breaking someone
for the thrill? There are definitive reasons and ways to break
someone, both caution and compassion must be adhered to. Otherwise,
serious mental issues could occur and you may even face legal
To bottom is to submit If you never been flogged, or have
endured pain for pleasure, then you simply have no claim to
state that to have encountered otherwise is being submissive.
Being on a cross does not simulate weakness or submission. It
simply means that someone is able to take what he or she can
give. On the same note, just because you played someone doesnít
mean they have submitted to you. Dominance and submission are
not necessarily a character trait or a natural trait, but could
be a choice.